Over the last few months, having seen a social media battle range between the ” Kannad’s ” and the non ” Kannad’s” in Bengaluru, I am tempted to write something as a Kannadiga born and brought up in Hyderabad. My thoughts are based on personal opinions and in the same way as a viewer soaks in a movie at a cinema. The person right next to me at a cinema may perceive the movie in a totally different way in comparison, which will purely be based on his or her own background and cultural adherence.
We, the people of a sovereign and secular state, are in a love hate relationship with the media. We love hating them and hate loving them for the things that media does and yet we behave in the same way. Putin’s statement of outsiders being a minority in the country comes from a communist background and yet we connect that statement to Kannada in Karnataka. I think the fault lies with people on either side of the line. I may be wrong in calling it a fault, the right way to put it could be a faulty mindset. It is also a case of a passion becoming an obsession that has gone too far in the minds of a few people, who are trying to influence others in believing their opinions. This has fueled a case of a strong, faulty and stubborn mindset on both sides.
Till the time that people in Hyderabad heard me speak Kannada, they had no idea my mother tongue was not Telugu. Till the time I heard a few friends in Bangalore speak Telugu at home, I had no idea their mother tongue was not Kannada. For the first 2-3 years of your life, you are only taught your mother tongue. It is only when the social interaction begins, that your exposure to other languages starts. Today, my daughter can speak 3 languages at 5 years of age- Kannada, Hindi and English ( There is a very strong reason for the order too). I am sure that once she is old enough to understand the ways of the world and take care of herself, she can stay in any part of the country for as long as she wants. So why am I speaking about a child here? It is her zeal to learn a new language, new words in a language. Having been exposed to Hindi outside with friends, and English at school, since the age of around 3, she has picked up the languages and does not hesitate to converse in them when the time arises.
It is common sense ( purely common sense only) that when we go out of our own cities there are many people who do not understand Hindi or English. A local grocery store owner need not know either of these languages. An auto guy does not need to know either of these languages. In any city, they would prefer to speak their local language and it is the outsiders who need to adapt and try to be a part of a place they intend to stay in for a long time or settle down or make a living in. We cannot expect a fisherman in Spain to speak English or blame the entire nation of France for not speaking English. After a certain age, it is difficult to pick up languages since the entire energies are spent on earning a living, taking care of the families and so many other things involved in running a household, and not to forget the pressures of a private company job. While in Rome, be a Roman and if you cannot be a Roman, at least make an attempt at becoming a Roman.
I would like to request all the Indians who do not know French to say ” Mille mercis.” in exactly the same way it is supposed to be said. If you do not, you will get rapped on your backside with a cane.
It is really absurd to see two Indians who have no clue about each other mother tongues get away by speaking English, being amazing friends, sharing a room and much more – outside of India, but widen the linguistic barrier once they land in the country. It is just a mindset. Languages are meant for communication and getting to know each other. Sometimes, the wrong minds use it for just the opposite purpose.
Instead of being proud of the fact that our country is so diverse and rich in many ways and we still love being called Indians, local conflicts bring in so much hatred and try to divide the people.
This senseless attitude of people must change and I am not talking about just one party here. Both are to blame equally and both must working towards making life more peaceful and spread some smiles. Think of the amount of time people spend in fueling these illogical and totally worthless arguments. Had they spent the same time in something more productive, things would be a lot different. Looking back at all the reading and observation that I have done personally and heard from friends, I can be very neutral in saying that this attitude is a grass root problem. It is going to be tough to eliminate this, but not impossible if the efforts are in the right direction.
There is a reason why Visa’s are not needed if you want to shift to another city or state. There is a reason why you can buy property anywhere in the country if you have the right identification. There is a reason why similar taxes are applicable across the country. There is a reason. There is.